Resources

Books

BDSM ~ Nonfiction

• 50 Ways to Play: BDSM for Nice People by Dan & Debra MacLeod (Tarcher 2012)

• The Art of Sensual Female Dominance by Claudia Varrin (New York: Citadel Press, 1998)

• BDSM The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer (Institute of Pleasure, 2011)

• The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment by Douglas Kent  (Mental Gears, 2004)

• Bondassage:  Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers by Jaeleen Bennis and Eve Minax (Dymaxicon, 2013)

• Bondage For Sex Volume1by Chanta Rose  (BDSM Press, 2006)

• Bound to be Free: The SM Experience by Charles Moser and JJ Madeson (Continuum, 1998)

• Dark Eros: The Imagination of Sadism by Thomas Moore (Woodstock, Connecticut: Spring Publications, 1994)

• Domination & Submission:  The BDSM Relationship Handbook by Michael Makai (CreateSpace, 20013)

• Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria G. Brame, William D. Brame, and Jon Jacobs (New York: Villard Books, 1995)

• Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman  (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2000)

• Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance & Submission Gini Graham Scott, Ph.D. (Secaucus, New Jersey: Citadel Press, 1997)

• Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy (Oakland: Greenery Press, 2007)

• Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission by Claudia Varrin (New York: Citadel Press, 2001)

• The Family Jewels: a Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment by Hardy Haberman  (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2001)

• Female Dominance: Rituals And Practices by Claudia Varrin (Citadel Press, 2005)

• Fifty Shades of Bondage & Submission: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM by Renee Dubois (Carlton Books, 2013)

• The Female Dominant: Games She Plays by Claudia Varrin (Citadel Press, 2005)

• How to be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM by Morpheous (Green Candy Press, 2008)

• How to be Kinkier:  More Adventures in Adult Playtime by Morpheous (Green Candy Press, 2012)

• Leatherman’s Handbook:  The Original by Larry Townsend (LT Pubns, 1994)

• Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player by Joseph W. Bean  (Los Angeles: Daedalus, 1994)

• The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual by Pat Califa (Alyson Books, 1998)

• The Loving Dominant by John Warren, PhD (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2000)

• The Master’s Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella (Daedelus, 2004)

• The Many Shades of BDSM:  A Safe and Scintillating Entry into the Escalating Pleasure of BDSM by B.J. Dempsey (Adams Media, 2012)

• Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual by Christine Abernathy (Emeryville:  Greenery Press 1996)

• The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei  (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2000)

• My Private Life: Real Experiences of a Dominant Woman by Mistress Nan  (New York: Daedalus Publishing, 2004)

• The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (Emeryville:  Greenery Press, 2004)

• The New Topping Book [NEW TOPPING BK] by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (Emeryville:  Greenery Press, 2003)

• On the Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play by Trevor Jacques (Alternate Sources, 1993)

• Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring, and Navigating the Kink, Leather, and BDSM Communities by Lee Harrington (Greenery Press, 2012)

• Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2004)

• Ropes, Bondage, and Power:  Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series by Lee Harrington (The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2009)

• Sacred Kink:  The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond, by Lee Harrington (lulu.com, 2011)

• Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon (Mystic Rose Books, 1995)

• The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2002)

• The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green (Greenery Press, 1998)

• SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 1998)

• Spirit of Desire: Personal Explorations of Sacred Kink by Lee Harrington, ed. (Lulu Enterprises, 2010)

• The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks to Better Service by Shannon Reilly (Create Space Independent Publishing, 2008)

• Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Dan and JD, the Two Knotty Boys

• Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes, by Dan and JD, the Two Knotty Boys

• The Ultimate Guide to Kink:  BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino (Cleis Press, 2012)

• When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton (Greenery Press, 2000)

• Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual, and Entertaining Essays by Midori  (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 2005)

BDSM ~ Fiction

• The Ages of Lulu: A Novel Almudena Grandes; Sonia Sotto, trans. (New York: Grove Press, 1993)

• The Amulet (Black Lace) Lisette Allen (London: Black Lace, 1995)

• Beauty’s Punishment (Sleeping Beauty) A. N. Roquelaure [Anne Rice] (New York: Plume Press, 1984)

• Beauty’s Release: The Conclusion of the Classic Erotic Trilogy of Sleeping Beauty A. N. Roquelaure [Anne Rice] (New York: Plume Press, 1985)

• Belinda Anne Rampling [Anne Rice] (New York: Jove Books, 1986)

• Best Bondage Erotica 2 Alison Tyler, ed. (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2005)

• Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories Rachel Kramer Bussel (San Francisco:  Cleis Press, 2009)

• The Captive Flesh (Black Lace) Cleo Cordell (London: Black Lace, 1993)

• The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty A.N. Roquelaure [Anne Rice] (New York: Plume Press, 1983)

• Delta of Venus, Anais Nin (NewYork: Harcourt Brace, 1969)

• Entertainment for a Master: A Novel John Preston (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 1986)

• Exit to Eden, Ann Rampling [Anne Rice] (New York: Dell Publishing, 1985)

• Hard Men Patrick Califia (Los Angeles: Alyson Publications, 2004)

• House of Dark Delights Louisa Burton  (New York: Bantam Books, 2007)

• I Once Had a Master John Preston (San Francisco: Cleis Press 1984)

• Jewel of Xanadu (Black Lace Series) Roxanne Carr (London: Black Lace, 1995)

• Juliet Rising (Black Lace) Cleo Cordell (London: Black Lace, 1994)

• ” Justine ” , ” Philosophy in the Bedroom ” and Other Writings Marquis de Sade;  Richard Seaver and Austryn Wainhouse, eds. (New York: Grove Press, 1965)

• Kushiel’s Dart by Jacqueline Carey (Tor Fantasy, 2002)

• The Last Temptation of Christ Nikos Kazantzakis (New York: Touchstone Books, 1960)

• Leathermen: Gay Erotic Stories Simon Sheppard, ed.  (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2008)

• Love at First Sting: Sexy Tales of Erotic Restraint by Alison Tyler (San Francisco: Cleis Press 2007)

• My Darling Dominatrix Pb Grant Antrews (New York: Rhinoceros Books, 1960)

• Nine and a Half Weeks: A Memoir of a Love Affair Elizabeth MacNeill (New York: Dutton, 1978)

• Of the Flesh: Dangerous New Fiction Greg Wharton, ed. (Chicago: Suspect Thoughts Press, 2001)

• The 120 Days of Sodom and Other Writings Marquis de Sade; Richard Seaver and Austryn Wainhouse eds. (New York: Grove Press, 1966)

• Please Sir:  Erotic Stories of Female Submission by Rachel Kramer Bussel (Cleis Press 2010)

• Roughed Up: More Tales of Gay Men, Sex, and Power Simon Sheppard and M. Christian, ed (Los Angeles: Alyson Publications, 2003)

• Secret Slaves: Erotic Stories of Bondage (The Fetish Chest) Rachel Kramer Bussel and Christopher Pierce, ed. (New York: Alyson Books, 2006)

• She’s on Top: Erotic Stories of Female Dominance and Male Submission Rachel Kramer Bussel, ed (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2007)

• Story of O Pauline Reage (New York: Ballantine Books, 1973)

• Story of the Eye by Lord Auch, Georges Bataille;  Joachim Neugroscel, trans. (San Francisco: City Lights Books)

• The Secret Life of a Submissive by Sarah K. (Harper Collins, 2013)

• The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir by Toni Bentley (New York:  Harper Collins, 2004)

• The Whip Angels Anonymous (London: Creation Books, 1995)

• Venus in Furs, Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (New York: Blast Books, 1989)

• Whipped: 20 Erotic Stories of Female Dominance Carol Queen, ed. (New York: Penguin, 2005)

• Yes, Ma’am: Erotic Stories of Male Submission Rachel Kramer Bussel, ed (San Francisco: Cleis Press 2008)

EROTIC MASSAGE

• The Art of Sensual Massage: 40th Anniversary Edition by Gordon Inkeles

• Erotic Massage: 50 Sexy Techniques to Get You In the Mood by Debbie O’Shea and Sheilagh Noble

• Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal, by Charla Hathaway  (Gloucester: Quiver, 2007)

• Erotic Massage, by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, PhD (Jeremy P. Tarcher, 1999)

• Lingam Massage: Awakening Male Sexual Energy, by Michaela Riedl

• Male Erotic Massage: A Guide to Sex and Spirit by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, PhD, and Jim Dennis (Secret Garden Publishing, 1999)

• Pure Erotic Massage: Touch*Feel*Arouse by Nicole Bailey

• Red Hot Touch: A head-to-toe handbook for mind-blowing orgasms, by Jaiya, Jon Hanauer

• Sensual Massage Made Simple by Gordon Inkeles

• Sexual Reflexology: Activating the Taoist Points of Love, by Mantak Chia and William Wei

• The Tao of Sexual Massage: A Step-by-Step Guide to Exciting, Enduring, Loving Pleasure, by Stephen Russell and Jurgen Kolb  (New York: Gaia Books, 1992)

• Ultimate Erotic Massage: The Complete Sensual Guide to Hands-on Bliss, by Kavida Rei

SEX GUIDES AND HOW-TO BOOKS

• Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples, Jack Morin

• The Astrology of Great Sex: Discover Your Lover’s-And Your Own-Deepest Desires, by Myrna Lamb  (Charlottesville: Hampton Roads, 2006)

• Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide by Barbara Carrellas

• The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures, by Dossie Easton and Catherine A Lisze (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 1998)

• The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: The Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written by Cathy Winks and Anne Semans

• The Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides

• How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques that Will Blow His Mind by Lou Paget

• How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do: Sex Advice from a Woman Who Knows by Candida Royalle (Fireside, 2004)

• The New Joy of Sex (The Joy of Sex Series) by Alex Comfort

• The New Joy of Gay Sex by Edmund White

• Orgasms for Two: The Joy of Partnersex, by Betty Dodson (Harmony Books, 2002)

• Passionista: The Empowered Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring a Man by Ian Kerner, PhD  (New York: Harper Collins, 2008)

• Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving by Betty Dodson (Crown Publishing Group, 1996)

• Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man (Positively Sexual) by Py Kim Conant (Alameda:  Hunter House, 2007)

• Veronica Monet’s Sex Secrets of Escorts: Tips from a Pro, Veronica Monet (New York:  Penguin, 2005)

• Sex Tips for Gay Guys  by Dan Andersen

• Sex Tips For Straight Women from a Gay Man, by Dan Anderson

• Dr. Sprinkle’s Spectacular Sex: Make Over Your Love Life with One of the World’s Great Sex Experts, by Annie Sprinkle, PhD (New York: Tarcher, 2005)

• Tricks… to Please a Man Jay Wiseman (Oakland: Greenery Press, 2003)

• Tricks To Please A Woman, Jay Wiseman (Oakland: Greenery Press, 2002)

• Tristan Taormino’s True Lust: Adventures in Sex, Porn, and Perversion by Tristan Taormino (San Francisco:  Cleis Press, 2002)

• Trust: The Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing by Bert Herrman

• The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men, by Bill Brent  (San Francisco, Cleis Press, 2002)

• The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure (Ultimate Guides (Cleis)), by Violet Blue

• Ultimate Gay Sex by Michael Thomas Ford (DK Adult, 2004)

• The Wanton Hussy’s Guide to Getting the Sex Life You Always Wanted Julianne Bentley (Ben Lomand: Wanton Hussy Books, 2008)

TANTRA, TAO, AND SACRED SEX

• The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers, by Margo Anand (Jeremy P. Tarcher, 1989)

• The Art of Sexual Magic by Margo Anand

• Healing Love through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia and Maneewan Chia (Healing Tao Books, 1986)

• Jewel In The Lotus/The Tantric Path to Higher Consciousness by Sunyata and Bodhi Avinasha (Kriya Jyoti Tantra Society, 1987)

• Life’s Too Short for Tantric Sex: 50 Shortcuts to Sexual Ecstasy, by Kate Taylor (New York: Marlowe and Company, 2003)

• The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know by Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams and Rachael Carlton Abrams

• The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know, by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams

• The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: Sexual Secrets Every Woman Should Know (Plus), by Mantak Chia and Rachael Carlton Abrams

• Sacred Orgasms by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, PhD (Secret Garden Publications, 1992)

• Sacred Sex : Ecstatic Techniques for Empowering Relationships, by Jwala with Robb Smith (Mandala, 1993)

• Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, by Barbara Carrellas (Celestial Arts, 2007)

Videos

• The New School of Erotic Touch ~ https://www.bondassage.com/new-school-videos.html

• The Pain Game ~ www.cleodubois.com

• Tie Me Up ~ www.cleodubois.com

• The Art of Orgasm:  Multi-Orgasmic Couple ~ www.margotanand.com

• Celebrating Orgasm:  Women’s Private Selfloving Sessions ~ dodsonandross.com

• Evolutionary Masturbation:  An Intimate Guide to the Male Orgasm ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1492

• Secrets of Female Sexual Ecstasy ~ www.sourcetantra.com

• Tantric Guide to Better Sex / Better Sex Video Series ~ www.excaliburfilms.com

• Anal Massage for Relaxation & Pleasure ~ www.eroticmassage.com

• The Best of Vulva Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1488

• Fire in the Valley:  Female Genital Massage ~http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1490

• Fire on the Mountain:  Male Genital Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1491

• Rosebud Massage ~ www.eroticmassage.com

• Tantric Massage ~http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/793

• Anal Massage on a Woman ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1486

• Anal Massage on a Man ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1489

• Self Anal Massage for Men ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1493

• Genital Massage for Women ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1546

• Genital Massage for Men ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1545

• Erotic Touch for Sexual Positions ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1547

• Erogenous Zones and Orgasmic Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1540

• Exquisite Anal Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1550

• Femme a Femme Erotic Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/787

• The Sacred Prostitute and Magdalene Revealed ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/792

• Annie Sprinkle’s Amazing World of Orgasm ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/619

• Divine Nectar ~ Exploring Female Ejaculation ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/791

• Mindful Masturbation for Men ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/621

• How to be a Sex Goddess ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/1079

• The Best of Penis Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1487

Music

• Blues Au Feminin

• Buddha-Bar VII

• Buddha-Bar IX

• Buddha Café 2  

• Buddha Lounge

• Buddha Lounge 2

• Buddha Lounge 5

• Buddha Lounge 6

• Café Del Mar, Vol. 11

• Cirque Du Soleil    Tapis Rouge

• Desert Grooves 3

• Deva Premal Embrace

• Diane Arkenstone    Aquaria: A Liquid Blue Trancescape

• Erotic Lounge

• Gabrielle Roth & The Mirrors    Refuge

• Gabrielle Rothe & The Mirrors  Tongues

• Le Groove Eclectique

• Lovers Lounge  

• Moroccan Spirit

• Songs of Kuan Yin

• Tantra Lounge Vol. 3

• Tantra Lounge Vol 4

• Tantra Lounge Vol 5

• Trance Yoga

• Yoga Groove

• Yoga Sol

Organizations Promoting Sexual Art And Culture

• SexEcology ~ http://sexecology.org/

• Seattle Erotic Arts Festival ~ www.seattleerotic.org

• Center for Sex and Culture (San Francisco) ~ www.sexandculture.org

• Seattle Sex Positive Community Center ~ www.wetspot.org

• Museum of Sex (New York) ~ https://www.museumofsex.com/

• Good Vibrations (San Francisco) ~ www.goodvibes.com

• Society for Human Sexuality ~ www.sexuality.org

• FetishEscorts.com ~ www.fetishescorts.com

• Eros.com ~ www.eros.com

Workshops, Online Teachings, And Private Sessions

• Eve Minax www.eveminax.com

• Jaeleen Bennis www.jaeleenbennisconsulting.com

• Jaiya www.missjaiya.com

• Barbara Carrellas/Urban Tantra  ~ www.barbaracarrellas.com, www.urbantantra.org

• Margot Anand/Sky Dancing Tantra ~ www.margotanand.com

• Body Electric ~ www.bodyelectric.org

• Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts ~ www.sm-arts.com

• Galen Fous MTP ~ http://galenfous.com/

• Midori ~ www.fetishdiva.com

• Charles Muir and Leah Alchin ~ www.sourcetantra.com

• Sexological Bodywork ~ sexologicalbodyworkers.org

• Joseph Kramer, PhD ~ www.eroticmassage.com

• Fakir Musafar ~ www.bodyplay.com

• Tristan Taormino ~ www.puckerup.com

• Veronica Vera ~ www.missvera.com

• Annie Sprinkle, PhD ~ www.anniesprinkle.org

• Pleasure Mechanics ~ http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/index/

• Pam Costa ~ Down To There ~ www.downtothere.com