Books
BDSM ~ Nonfiction
50 Ways to Play: BDSM for Nice People by Dan & Debra MacLeod (Tarcher 2012)
The Art of Sensual Female Dominance by Claudia Varrin (New York: Citadel Press, 1998)
BDSM The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer (Institute of Pleasure, 2011)
The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment by Douglas Kent (Mental Gears, 2004)
- Bondassage: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers by Jaeleen Bennis and Eve Minax (Dymaxicon, 2013)
Bondage For Sex Volume1by Chanta Rose (BDSM Press, 2006)
Bound to be Free: The SM Experience by Charles Moser and JJ Madeson (Continuum, 1998)
Dark Eros: The Imagination of Sadism by Thomas Moore (Woodstock, Connecticut: Spring Publications, 1994)
- Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook by Michael Makai (CreateSpace, 20013)
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria G. Brame, William D. Brame, and Jon Jacobs (New York: Villard Books, 1995)
Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2000)
Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance & Submission Gini Graham Scott, Ph.D. (Secaucus, New Jersey: Citadel Press, 1997)
Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy (Oakland: Greenery Press, 2007)
Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission by Claudia Varrin (New York: Citadel Press, 2001)
The Family Jewels: a Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment by Hardy Haberman (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2001)
Female Dominance: Rituals And Practices by Claudia Varrin (Citadel Press, 2005)
Fifty Shades of Bondage & Submission: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM by Renee Dubois (Carlton Books, 2013)
The Female Dominant: Games She Plays by Claudia Varrin (Citadel Press, 2005)
How to be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM by Morpheous (Green Candy Press, 2008)
How to be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime by Morpheous (Green Candy Press, 2012)
Leatherman’s Handbook: The Original by Larry Townsend (LT Pubns, 1994)
Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player by Joseph W. Bean (Los Angeles: Daedalus, 1994)
The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual by Pat Califa (Alyson Books, 1998)
The Loving Dominant by John Warren, PhD (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2000)
The Master’s Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella (Daedelus, 2004)
The Many Shades of BDSM: A Safe and Scintillating Entry into the Escalating Pleasure of BDSM by B.J. Dempsey (Adams Media, 2012)
Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual by Christine Abernathy (Emeryville: Greenery Press 1996)
The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2000)
My Private Life: Real Experiences of a Dominant Woman by Mistress Nan (New York: Daedalus Publishing, 2004)
The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2004)
The New Topping Book [NEW TOPPING BK] by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2003)
On the Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play by Trevor Jacques (Alternate Sources, 1993)
Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring, and Navigating the Kink, Leather, and BDSM Communities by Lee Harrington (Greenery Press, 2012)
Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2004)
Ropes, Bondage, and Power: Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series by Lee Harrington (The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2009)
Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond, by Lee Harrington (lulu.com, 2011)
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon (Mystic Rose Books, 1995)
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 2002)
The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green (Greenery Press, 1998)
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 1998)
Spirit of Desire: Personal Explorations of Sacred Kink by Lee Harrington, ed. (Lulu Enterprises, 2010)
The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks to Better Service by Shannon Reilly (Create Space Independent Publishing, 2008)
Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Dan and JD, the Two Knotty Boys
Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes, by Dan and JD, the Two Knotty Boys
The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino (Cleis Press, 2012)
When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton (Greenery Press, 2000)
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual, and Entertaining Essays by Midori (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 2005)
BDSM ~ Fiction
The Ages of Lulu: A Novel Almudena Grandes; Sonia Sotto, trans. (New York: Grove Press, 1993)
The Amulet (Black Lace) Lisette Allen (London: Black Lace, 1995)
Beauty’s Punishment (Sleeping Beauty) A. N. Roquelaure [Anne Rice] (New York: Plume Press, 1984)
Beauty’s Release: The Conclusion of the Classic Erotic Trilogy of Sleeping Beauty A. N. Roquelaure [Anne Rice] (New York: Plume Press, 1985)
Belinda Anne Rampling [Anne Rice] (New York: Jove Books, 1986)
Best Bondage Erotica 2 Alison Tyler, ed. (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2005)
Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories Rachel Kramer Bussel (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2009)
The Captive Flesh (Black Lace) Cleo Cordell (London: Black Lace, 1993)
The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty A.N. Roquelaure [Anne Rice] (New York: Plume Press, 1983)
Delta of Venus, Anais Nin (NewYork: Harcourt Brace, 1969)
Entertainment for a Master: A Novel John Preston (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 1986)
Exit to Eden, Ann Rampling [Anne Rice] (New York: Dell Publishing, 1985)
Hard Men Patrick Califia (Los Angeles: Alyson Publications, 2004)
House of Dark Delights Louisa Burton (New York: Bantam Books, 2007)
I Once Had a Master John Preston (San Francisco: Cleis Press 1984)
Jewel of Xanadu (Black Lace Series) Roxanne Carr (London: Black Lace, 1995)
Juliet Rising (Black Lace) Cleo Cordell (London: Black Lace, 1994)
” Justine ” , ” Philosophy in the Bedroom ” and Other Writings Marquis de Sade; Richard Seaver and Austryn Wainhouse, eds. (New York: Grove Press, 1965)
Kushiel’s Dart by Jacqueline Carey (Tor Fantasy, 2002)
The Last Temptation of Christ Nikos Kazantzakis (New York: Touchstone Books, 1960)
Leathermen: Gay Erotic Stories Simon Sheppard, ed. (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2008)
Love at First Sting: Sexy Tales of Erotic Restraint by Alison Tyler (San Francisco: Cleis Press 2007)
My Darling Dominatrix Pb Grant Antrews (New York: Rhinoceros Books, 1960)
Nine and a Half Weeks: A Memoir of a Love Affair Elizabeth MacNeill (New York: Dutton, 1978)
Of the Flesh: Dangerous New Fiction Greg Wharton, ed. (Chicago: Suspect Thoughts Press, 2001)
The 120 Days of Sodom and Other Writings Marquis de Sade; Richard Seaver and Austryn Wainhouse eds. (New York: Grove Press, 1966)
Please Sir: Erotic Stories of Female Submission by Rachel Kramer Bussel (Cleis Press 2010)
Roughed Up: More Tales of Gay Men, Sex, and Power Simon Sheppard and M. Christian, ed (Los Angeles: Alyson Publications, 2003)
Secret Slaves: Erotic Stories of Bondage (The Fetish Chest) Rachel Kramer Bussel and Christopher Pierce, ed. (New York: Alyson Books, 2006)
She’s on Top: Erotic Stories of Female Dominance and Male Submission Rachel Kramer Bussel, ed (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2007)
Story of O Pauline Reage (New York: Ballantine Books, 1973)
Story of the Eye by Lord Auch, Georges Bataille; Joachim Neugroscel, trans. (San Francisco: City Lights Books)
The Secret Life of a Submissive by Sarah K. (Harper Collins, 2013)
The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir by Toni Bentley (New York: Harper Collins, 2004)
The Whip Angels Anonymous (London: Creation Books, 1995)
Venus in Furs, Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (New York: Blast Books, 1989)
Whipped: 20 Erotic Stories of Female Dominance Carol Queen, ed. (New York: Penguin, 2005)
Yes, Ma’am: Erotic Stories of Male Submission Rachel Kramer Bussel, ed (San Francisco: Cleis Press 2008)
EROTIC MASSAGE
The Art of Sensual Massage: 40th Anniversary Edition by Gordon Inkeles
Erotic Massage: 50 Sexy Techniques to Get You In the Mood by Debbie O’Shea and Sheilagh Noble
Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal, by Charla Hathaway (Gloucester: Quiver, 2007)
Erotic Massage, by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, PhD (Jeremy P. Tarcher, 1999)
Lingam Massage: Awakening Male Sexual Energy, by Michaela Riedl
Male Erotic Massage: A Guide to Sex and Spirit by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, PhD, and Jim Dennis (Secret Garden Publishing, 1999)
Pure Erotic Massage: Touch*Feel*Arouse by Nicole Bailey
Red Hot Touch: A head-to-toe handbook for mind-blowing orgasms, by Jaiya, Jon Hanauer
Sensual Massage Made Simple by Gordon Inkeles
Sexual Reflexology: Activating the Taoist Points of Love, by Mantak Chia and William Wei
The Tao of Sexual Massage: A Step-by-Step Guide to Exciting, Enduring, Loving Pleasure, by Stephen Russell and Jurgen Kolb (New York: Gaia Books, 1992)
Ultimate Erotic Massage: The Complete Sensual Guide to Hands-on Bliss, by Kavida Rei
SEX GUIDES AND HOW-TO BOOKS
Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples, Jack Morin
The Astrology of Great Sex: Discover Your Lover’s-And Your Own-Deepest Desires, by Myrna Lamb (Charlottesville: Hampton Roads, 2006)
Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide by Barbara Carrellas
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures, by Dossie Easton and Catherine A Lisze (Emeryville: Greenery Press, 1998)
The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: The Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written by Cathy Winks and Anne Semans
The Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides
How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques that Will Blow His Mind by Lou Paget
How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do: Sex Advice from a Woman Who Knows by Candida Royalle (Fireside, 2004)
The New Joy of Sex (The Joy of Sex Series) by Alex Comfort
The New Joy of Gay Sex by Edmund White
Orgasms for Two: The Joy of Partnersex, by Betty Dodson (Harmony Books, 2002)
Passionista: The Empowered Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring a Man by Ian Kerner, PhD (New York: Harper Collins, 2008)
Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving by Betty Dodson (Crown Publishing Group, 1996)
Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man (Positively Sexual) by Py Kim Conant (Alameda: Hunter House, 2007)
Veronica Monet’s Sex Secrets of Escorts: Tips from a Pro, Veronica Monet (New York: Penguin, 2005)
Sex Tips for Gay Guys by Dan Andersen
Sex Tips For Straight Women from a Gay Man, by Dan Anderson
Dr. Sprinkle’s Spectacular Sex: Make Over Your Love Life with One of the World’s Great Sex Experts, by Annie Sprinkle, PhD (New York: Tarcher, 2005)
Tricks… to Please a Man Jay Wiseman (Oakland: Greenery Press, 2003)
Tricks To Please A Woman, Jay Wiseman (Oakland: Greenery Press, 2002)
Tristan Taormino’s True Lust: Adventures in Sex, Porn, and Perversion by Tristan Taormino (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2002)
Trust: The Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing by Bert Herrman
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men, by Bill Brent (San Francisco, Cleis Press, 2002)
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure (Ultimate Guides (Cleis)), by Violet Blue
Ultimate Gay Sex by Michael Thomas Ford (DK Adult, 2004)
The Wanton Hussy’s Guide to Getting the Sex Life You Always Wanted Julianne Bentley (Ben Lomand: Wanton Hussy Books, 2008)
TANTRA, TAO, AND SACRED SEX
The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers, by Margo Anand (Jeremy P. Tarcher, 1989)
The Art of Sexual Magic by Margo Anand
Healing Love through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia and Maneewan Chia (Healing Tao Books, 1986)
Jewel In The Lotus/The Tantric Path to Higher Consciousness by Sunyata and Bodhi Avinasha (Kriya Jyoti Tantra Society, 1987)
Life’s Too Short for Tantric Sex: 50 Shortcuts to Sexual Ecstasy, by Kate Taylor (New York: Marlowe and Company, 2003)
The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know by Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams and Rachael Carlton Abrams
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know, by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams
The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: Sexual Secrets Every Woman Should Know (Plus), by Mantak Chia and Rachael Carlton Abrams
Sacred Orgasms by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, PhD (Secret Garden Publications, 1992)
Sacred Sex : Ecstatic Techniques for Empowering Relationships, by Jwala with Robb Smith (Mandala, 1993)
- Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, by Barbara Carrellas (Celestial Arts, 2007)
VIDEOS
The New School of Erotic Touch ~ https://www.bondassage.com/new-school-videos.html
The Pain Game ~ www.cleodubois.com
Tie Me Up ~ www.cleodubois.com
The Art of Orgasm: Multi-Orgasmic Couple ~ www.margotanand.com
Celebrating Orgasm: Women’s Private Selfloving Sessions ~ dodsonandross.com
Evolutionary Masturbation: An Intimate Guide to the Male Orgasm ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1492
Secrets of Female Sexual Ecstasy ~ www.sourcetantra.com
Tantric Guide to Better Sex / Better Sex Video Series ~ www.excaliburfilms.com
Anal Massage for Relaxation & Pleasure ~ www.eroticmassage.com
The Best of Vulva Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1488
Fire in the Valley: Female Genital Massage ~http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1490
Fire on the Mountain: Male Genital Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1491
Rosebud Massage ~ www.eroticmassage.com
Tantric Massage ~http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/793
Anal Massage on a Woman ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1486
Anal Massage on a Man ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1489
Self Anal Massage for Men ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1493
Genital Massage for Women ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1546
Genital Massage for Men ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1545
Erotic Touch for Sexual Positions ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1547
Erogenous Zones and Orgasmic Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1540
Exquisite Anal Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1550
Femme a Femme Erotic Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/787
The Sacred Prostitute and Magdalene Revealed ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/792
Annie Sprinkle’s Amazing World of Orgasm ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/619
Divine Nectar ~ Exploring Female Ejaculation ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/791
Mindful Masturbation for Men ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/621
How to be a Sex Goddess ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/class/1079
- The Best of Penis Massage ~ http://www.eroticmassage.com/node/1487
MUSIC
ORGANIZATIONS PROMOTING SEXUAL ART AND CULTURE
SexEcology ~ http://sexecology.org/
Seattle Erotic Arts Festival ~ www.seattleerotic.org
Center for Sex and Culture (San Francisco) ~ www.sexandculture.org
Seattle Sex Positive Community Center ~ www.wetspot.org
Museum of Sex (New York) ~ https://www.museumofsex.com/
Good Vibrations (San Francisco) ~ www.goodvibes.com
Society for Human Sexuality ~ www.sexuality.org
FetishEscorts.com ~ www.fetishescorts.com
Eros.com ~ www.eros.com
WORKSHOPS, ONLINE TEACHING, AND PRIVATE SESSIONS
Eve Minax www.eveminax.com
- Jaeleen Bennis www.jaeleenbennisconsulting.com
Jaiya www.missjaiya.com
Barbara Carrellas/Urban Tantra ~ www.barbaracarrellas.com, www.urbantantra.org
Margot Anand/Sky Dancing Tantra ~ www.margotanand.com
Body Electric ~ www.bodyelectric.org
Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts ~ www.sm-arts.com
Galen Fous MTP ~ http://galenfous.com/
Midori ~ www.fetishdiva.com
Charles Muir and Leah Alchin ~ www.sourcetantra.com
Sexological Bodywork ~ sexologicalbodyworkers.org
Joseph Kramer, PhD ~ www.eroticmassage.com
Tristan Taormino ~ www.puckerup.com
Veronica Vera ~ www.missvera.com
Annie Sprinkle, PhD ~ www.anniesprinkle.org
- Pleasure Mechanics ~ http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/index/
Pam Costa ~ Down To There ~ www.downtothere.com